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Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Excerpt from "Who pays for your spouse's sins?

Let's suppose my wife, Lucia, sins and I get angry with her as a response to her sin. In such a case, which sadly is how it goes in our home from time to time, I would be punishing her for her sin. I would be acting as "God" by demanding justice, while completely missing the Gospel. Christ bore the Father's wrath, died, and rose from the grave in order to accomplish salvation for anyone who authentically believes this story. Thankfully, Lucia was regenerated by the grace of God many years ago. Her sin, past, present, and future has been paid for because of the Gospel.

When I respond in anger to her sin, I am making her do what Christ would never do. I am punishing her.


Christ did not make me pay for my sin. He sacrificed for my sin by giving His life for me. If I truly understand the Gospel in the moment of my wife's sin, my response would be a Gospel-motivated sacrifice rather than self-centered punishment.


Thus is so when we respond in anger at others sins. Read more at Competent Counseling
 

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